Have you written
down your goals for 2009?
by Robyn Opie
Happy New
Year!
A lot of people like the New Year because January
gives us a sense of starting over, of beginning
afresh. Weve drawn a line in the sand. The
old year is behind us. The new year is in front
of us, looking clean and fresh. We have a clean
slate to fill, to do as we wish. The new year
provides new possibilities. I cant wait!
Some people make New Years resolutions. And
many fail to stick to these ideals.
Why is it so hard to keep those New Years
resolutions?
I think the problem with our good
intentions is a lack of motivation and
planning. Also, these resolutions can be big and
vague an ideal rather than a
reality. Sometimes we make New Years
resolutions because we can and it feels like the
right thing to do. Perhaps our friends are making
them, so we feel as if we should too. Usually no
one polices us, so what does it matter if we
dont keep them? Do we really want to
achieve the results? Not always.
Lets forget New Years resolutions.
They dont work for a lot of people.
Have you ever heard successful folk talk in terms
of New Years resolutions? They dont.
What they talk about is goals.
What do you want to achieve in 2009? What are
your goals?
My partner, Rob Parnell, and I write down our
goals. We dont restrict our goal setting to
the New Year. Were constantly setting goals
and working towards them. This is the way we
live. We discuss our goals almost daily and we
brainstorm ways of achieving our desired results.
Were always moving in the direction of our
goals and often achieving them. Goal setting
works for us, as it does many people, and
thats why Im writing to you today.
If you havent set your goals for 2009, if
this is not something you normally do, Im
suggesting you give it a try.
Writing down your goals helps you determine what
you want. It helps you look for ways of achieving
the results. It gives you a direction or
directions to take. What youre doing is
opening your mind and giving yourself focus.
Im going to give you a simple example of a
goal.
You go to the fridge and discover youre out
of milk. You decide that you need to buy milk.
This is your goal. Now you know your goal you
immediately think of ways of achieving it. What
are you going to do? Go to the shop to buy more
milk. Okay, which shop? How are you going to get
there? When will you do this?
That might seem like a silly example but Im
simply making a point. Once you determine a goal,
you start the ball rolling, looking for ways of
achieving the goal until you reach it.
Writing things down helps you remember them and
gives you plenty of opportunities to refer to
them later. A lot of people write shopping lists.
I know I do. If I dont write down what I
need from the shop, theres always the
chance Ill come home without something
important. I have a tendency to forget once
Im surrounded by all those groceries.
Writing things down is a commitment. You have to
find pen and paper. Or you have to turn on your
computer and open a new document. You have to
write or type. It takes effort. Youre
engaging your body and brain.
Im assuming, because youre subscribed
to my newsletter on writing childrens books
or reading this article, that you want to write
childrens books. Therefore you have a goal
to write childrens books.
To take that assumption further, Im going
to move on to a writing example of a goal. You
want to write a picture book and get it
published. This is your goal. The best goals are
specific and have time frames. I thrive under
deadlines. I always meet these deadlines and
there are a lot of deadlines in publishing. So
give yourself a deadline. You want to write a
picture book and submit it to a publisher by June
2009.
The next question how are you doing to do
it? Do you need to borrow recent picture books
from your library and familiarize yourself with
what is being published? Cant hurt! Do you
need to read books on writing picture books,
written by experienced published authors? Do you
need to do a writing course? Should you join a
writers centre or group?
See how writing down a goal makes you start
thinking about ways of achieving it! This is part
of the process. Once you have a written goal, you
need to look at your options on how youre
going to reach this goal.
The next step is action. You need to take action.
In other words, you need to move in the direction
of your goal. Writing down goals, thinking about
how youre going to achieve the goals, helps
motivate and inspire you. You can see what you
need to do and how all so clearly.
Have you ever had a goal to drive from your home
to another city? Youve never been to your
destination. This is all new to you. What do you
do? Explore ways of getting there, Im sure.
You probably consult a map or maps. Maybe you
talk to other people about the best way. I bet
you have a plan. Not too many of us would drive
around aimlessly and hope we got to our
destination by chance or miracle.
Why would you want to act this way with your
writing career? Or the rest of your life?
Write things down, plan and take action.
And scientific evidence shows that the best way
to achieve a goal is to add emotion to it. So get
excited! Happy! Enthusiastic!
Remember what I said at the beginning of this
article about New Years resolutions? Often
they are big and vague - and perhaps they lack
emotion. Be specific with your goals. Dont
make them too big or impossible. Thats a
sure fire way of reducing your chances of
success. You can give up too quickly if your
goals are too big or too hard. Be practical. Make
the steps to reaching your goals achievable.
Break them down into smaller steps. But push
yourself. Move out of your comfort zone.
Make sure you write your goals down so your whole
body is engaged and so you can remember them and
refer to them later. Create a lifestyle in which
youre aware of your goals and refer to them
every day.
You can adjust your goals. Theyre not
written in concrete. Goals are meant to help you
achieve what you want in life. Think of this
process as your friend and do what works for you
I wish you plenty of health, wealth, happiness
and success in 2009. If youre already using
goals, I hope theyre working for you. If
youre not using goals, what have you got to
lose?
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